#022: What No One Tells You About Traditional Publishing with Author Nic DiDomizio

Bestselling author Nic DiDomizio joins Nicole for a conversation that’s equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and brutally honest. In this candid episode, Nic pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to make it in traditional publishing—from query letter heartbreak to near-deals that died in acquisitions, and the unexpected role James Patterson played in his debut.

We also dive into Nic’s latest novel, Nearly Wed—a romcom that blends lobster lore, pop culture references, and age-gap romance in a way that speaks directly to every geriatric millennial’s soul.

You’ll hear:

• The emotional rollercoaster of getting traditionally published

• How to survive the query trenches and “dying on submission”

• Why your first draft doesn’t need to be perfect

• The importance of persistence, community, and knowing your path

Plus, Nic shares his manifestation list for 2026 (spoiler: it includes starred reviews, strong preorders, and Nearly Wed: The Movie).

If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to break into traditional publishing—or stay in it—this episode is for you.

Books mentioned:
📚 Nearly Wed
📚 The Gay Best Friend
📚 Burn It All Down

Check out Nicolas’ Instagram: @nicdidomiziobooks and Website: https://nicolasdidomizio.com/

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